Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Ornaments that Document
Show Off!
There are probably many ways to make them part of your Holiday decor, but here is one of the simplest: Tack a fun ribbon across a room and hang your cards like they're clothes of love and praise out to dry in the light of the season.
Friday, December 12, 2008
Advent
Sometimes we forget Advent. Every year, you might think that Christmas starts the day after Thanksgiving and by the time we reach December 24th, we're exhausted and Christmas-ed out. I'll admit I rarely get to church these days for one reason or another, but one thing that keeps me coming back is our Rector, Bill Tully and his fabulous sermons. He sends out a weekly message called Crossroads and I wanted to share this week's, all about the season of Advent. Even if Christmas is just a secular celebration for you of family and the season, I think his message offers a great perspective.
Is Advent taking hold?
Is it my wishful thinking, or is Advent a little less frenzied this year? Is the Spirit taking rueful advantage of recession and touching us all in that place where we self-regulate a little--maybe even get a bit contemplative?
Small and compact, Advent as a season on the sacred calendar has always been counter-cultural. In its earliest form it was six weeks not four, and it deliberately served for Christmas the same penitential purpose as Lent does for Easter. Counter to the theme of "coming" in the sense of Christ coming by birth into the world, its themes focused on last things, the "second coming" agenda of Heaven, Hell, Death, and Judgement.
So if our usual over-indulgence and hurry are muted by the genuinely tough times, is that so bad? That's not the same as asking if God is sending bad things to punish us. Such a theology assumes God is puppeteer pulling every little string of our lives, a surprising way of seeing God that otherwise thoughtful people often fall into. A different but perfectly traditional, even orthodox, way of seeing things is that God does NOT pinpoint every action or occurrence in history or our lives. Instead, God gives us the ability to respond to what happens, and even to work with God to redeem the times.
That's what I think we're seeing this Advent. I'm actually hearing more and more people struggling to find meaning in what we're going through. Some even turn to the riches of our tradition to see how our practice might change lives, ours, and others.
That's more enlightened theology, of course, but it's more than that. You CAN slow down, care for yourself, make loving and proportionate decisions about how to live and celebrate, and reach out in love to at least one other human being.
The New York Times is taking reader comments this week on the question, How do you celebrate the holidays when your loved ones are away? I was struck by one melancholy reply: "I'm usually depressed... I go to church where people say "may peace be with you" and then ignore me."
Wouldn't the world be different-- and a little closer to the love Jesus lived and died for-- if each of us could turn that unhappy moment around, and pay attention to someone who needs that love? If Advent is touching you in this hard year, you'll know what to do.
Bill Tully
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
The Original Renaissance Girl

I came across these photos of my Great Grandmother, Amber May Fowler Rideout. She was the original Renaissance Girl. My childhood beds were covered in her bonneted-girl quilts and I now have my parents' wedding ring quilt in our bedroom. I've talked to several relatives and each has a quilt from her somewhere. How many quilts must she have hand-sewn? I can't begin to imagine...
My Father reminded me that she also knit amazing thick zip-up sweaters, very stylish in the 50's, for many of her grandchildren, even with matching hats. I remember seeing photos of my Father and his three brothers wearing slightly different but matching sweaters in the snow. I have one of the sweaters now and it is so substantial, I can wear it in place of a coat!
Every birthday for the last 10 years of her life, I'd receive a different doll in the mail. She embroidered a different outfit for each one: One a pink and white 18th Century Lady, one a red and black Senorita, the next year a Princess in blue and white. Each even had undergarments and perhaps a hat or matching tiny purse. They must have taken forever to embroider with a tiny needle and the finest yarn she could find. Her dolls were too small and delicate to live the fast-paced life that my Barbies lived, so they remained admired on upper shelves and I can only really appreciate them now.
My grandmother raised many children on the rural plains of Alberta, Canada and I can imagine that ingenuity and creativity meant actual survival for her. I'm guessing bargain shopping wasn't really an option and my efforts to survive in show business and a big city probably pale in comparison. I remember meeting her once when I was about four, but I wish I could have really talked to her.
Thanks for your hand-made works of art, Great Grandma!

Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Progress Check
How's it going? Have you finished your Holiday preparations yet? No? Have you even made a dent?
It's a bit out of character for me to NOT procrastinate, but I made my gifts again this year and am about halfway done already! Just thought I'd celebrate a bit by posting...
Who's making their gifts this year? Share, please...
Packing?

Holiday travel: Is it bringing out the Grinch in you? I used to love to fly, but shoe removal and liquid restriction (not to mention escalating airfares) are enough to make one wonder if taking the bus would have been a better option after all. And with baggage allowances dwindling monthly, advanced preparation is a must.
I used to be an overpacker. I'd show up at Grandma's local airport with a suitcase that even two people couldn't lift and on top of that, I'd still have a carry-on and a heavy coat. Half the clothing and shoes that I stuffed into my bigger-than-God suitcase went unworn. My reasoning was, I didn't know what I'd feel like wearing once I reached my destination. Better to be prepared. Well, I'll tell you: There is nothing like two months of carrying a 60 pound sea bag all over Europe (Ah, the post college graduation Eurail Pass!) to make even a hearty Renaissance Girl mend her ways.
These days, being prepared means having one carry-on bag that you don't have to worry about losing during flight delays and unexpected travel changes. It means you won't take up too much room where you're staying and that you will actually be able to locate things when you want to wear them! And let's not underestimate the joys of being able to go directly to security without checking a bag. Note: Pack your carry-on WITHOUT unzipping the optional expanding zipper. Save that for shopping that might accidentally (yeah, right!) take place during your travels.
But how to START packing?
a) SCHEDULE, DESTINATION WEATHER FORECAST
I make at least a mental list of what I'll be doing during my stay and what wardrobe requirements there will be.
b) CHOOSE EVENT OUTFIT
I start selecting clothes from my closet by deciding on the nicest outfit first (seeing a performance, going out to dinner with family, etc.).
c) SHOES
I choose 2 pairs of shoes (okay, with my athletic shoes for working out, three), one of them completing the event outfit, the other, perhaps, a boot that is comfortable and stylish and that I can wear on the plane (leaving room for clothes in my carry-on). Don't forget, make sure they're easy to remove for security...
d) LAYOUT FAVORITES ON THE BED
I always choose too much at first, knowing I'll be putting at least half of it back in the closet.
e) UNDERWEAR
Keep it all neutral so it will work with anything you pack. Don't forget hose or tights for skirts, socks for athletic shoes and boots.
f) PACK JAMMIES AND WORKOUT CLOTHES
g) COLOR SCHEME
Hey! I mention this in my advice to On the Verge in the Lady Godiva post! Well, it works for packing, too. If the boots you chose are brown, then that would be a fabulous neutral to match a belt to. Then why not choose more natural and Earth tones? If they're black, find a black belt and choose brighter colors.
h) ELIMINATE
Depending on the length of your stay, you'll only need one pair of jeans (I know, that's a tough one), one skirt, 2 long sleeved tops, 1 sweater, one jacket, maybe one pair of slacks, and a couple camis and a t-shirt. Separates are better than one-piece items (dresses) because everything you brought can be mixed and matched (Yay, color scheme!) to create different outfits.
i) JEWELRIES AND ACCESSORIES (TIES FOR GUYS)
Just bring the earrings, watch, and necklace that you wear all the time. Much less hassle, maybe plus something for the nice outfit... A Pashmena scarf can be worn a couple of different ways.
j) TOILETRIES
Remember the liquids thing, as it applies to carry-ons. You can always buy stuff there.
k) PERSONAL ITEM
Keep it simple. It's winter, you'll have a coat. (Does the coat match your color scheme?) And reading material for when your flight is inevitably delayed.
l) FORGET SOMETHING?
Actually, I'm wondering that for myself about this post, but seriously, that should probably be

your next question.
When the flight finally takes off, I remember how I actually do love to fly. It's a miracle, if you think about it, being that far above the clouds and seeing the world from a wider perspective. See how small all of our problems are in this big universe?
Where are you going this Holiday Season? Have a great time!
Monday, December 1, 2008
Sample Sale!
Have I mentioned Sample Sales as sources for stylish bargains? No? Well here's one this week! Worth has a GORGEOUS fall and winter collection and the website is a great place to see examples of assembling stylish outfits (On the Verge, this one's for you!).
Laura & Saundra of Strategic Image Partners
Invite you to the Fall/Winter Worth Sample Sale
For the first time ever, Worth is marking down it's show room samples at 50% off!
Come in on Friday for the best selection and ask for Saundra or Laura.
Unsold fall & winter inventory from the warehouse
will also be available for special order (by Saundra and Laura) at 35% off.
ALL SALES FINAL
Strategic Image Partners Client Appreciation & Early Bird Shopping
Friday, December 5th, 11am -7pm
Enjoy wine and hor d'oeuvres from 4pm-7pm
@ Worth Showroom: 37 West 57th St. 8th Floor
(continued on Saturday, December 6th from 11am -7pm
and daily Monday, 12/8 to Friday, 12/12 from 11am-7pm
No Appointment necessary
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